Offensive words are automatically blocked in this chat room. To become a moderator of this chat room , please click here . This usually involves a discussion about what they want for the future.It is important to note that, nowadays in most families, the first two Khastegaris are done in one step.At first, members of the bride’s family talk about the virtues of the girl.Traditionally, modesty was among the most highly valued qualities, along with domestic skills like cooking, embroidery, and entertaining at social gatherings (Mehmān Navāzi).
5,452,812 articles in English Arts Biography Geography History Mathematics... In modern day Iran, the Khastegari is a one-time formality.It is a sign of respect to the parents of both parties and for them (as wiser/elders) to have their thoughts shared with the potential future bride and groom.Both the woman and the man had their say in whether or not they would like a follow up on the visits.Once both parties had established serious intentions for the relationship, the man's family would bring sweets and a larger bouquet and officially ask the question.